Society how should I take you??
I
remember when I was a teenager, I had an awesome teenage life but yes it was
mixture of happiness and sorrow. A girl who grew up by reading fairy tales, for
a while thought it does exist but the life shows it’s both sides and everything
becomes crystal-clear to these baby-eyes. I do remember when I was sweet
sixteen and I had a Muslim crush in my life but I was told by my friends,
people and society that being a Brahmin girl should not think of Muslim
relationships.
Then
after my H.S.C I took admission in law and had my longest relationship and
first serious relationship with a “south Indian” guy, initial periods were very
fine but then family member came to know and they rejected him by saying the
title of “South Indian”. I must say when you are a girl (Whether in
relationship or not) you get lot of proposals for relationships/ marriages etc.
if you just have decent looks, presentable dressing sense and reasonable amount
of brain. Well…. it’s not a subject matter at all, just mentioned those
incidents which I believe happens in everyone’s life (Please ignore some exceptions)
and in the end life’s circle goes on and the old rules which made by our rigid
society keep going on for eg. - 22 me padhai, 25 me sagai and 27 me shadi then
starts your barbadi (joke part don’t take seriously)
When
I turned to 22 I understood, since my childhood society taught me cast
discrimination, religion superiority, communal war and other related social
evils. Are we really made for all these?? Unfortunately to say 60% literate Indians
also do ask for dowry and supports it in great proportion and 20% Indians
misuse dowry protection act just to take revenge from their in-laws and
husband. Sometimes I feel to ask myself “are we really literate or we just have
made barriers to our education system?? Graduation, Engineering, Medical, Law,
Business management are the only thing which make us literate? I believe it is
important no doubt but the Indian society has accepted it as a stamp or valid
proof of education and it is noteworthy to say these educated classes only ask
for dowry in great proportion in order to recover their money which they have
spent on their education.
If
a child is hungry what will you prefer to give food or Geeta, Bible, Qoran,
Guru granth sahib?? India is same like this child who needs common and basic
principles to understand human heart, values and ethics if they learn those fundamentals
I think they will be able to understand the worth of human life. Please do not
take me in wrong way my writing purpose is not to create hatred against
religions thoughts; I just want people to understand its real meaning. None of
the religion opposes humanity but India when the matter of marriage comes religion,
cast, and community matters in a great proportion which results to honor
killing and such crime is very famous in Northern part of India. The love
marriage concept is still sleeping in the country like India, however nowadays people
have raised their voices and it’s happening in satisfactory proportions but it’s
still a taboo. We are highly educated, have good job opportunities working in
well known MNCs but still we are backward we do follow social evils which has
artificial mask of humanity.
“What Jesus would have preferred
humanity or Christianity? And what will you prefer??
Thank you for reading my article. Thank
you very much!!
Disclaimer: Article does not contain
anything against any religion, cast, sub-cast and community. It does not aim to
cause any related damages. Unconditional sorry in order to cause/hurt religious
sentiments directly/indirectly.
