First of all I would like to say thanks to you and mom
as you both gave me birth. You and mom didn’t kill me when I was in mom’s womb.
I know that I was your unwanted child as you already had decent family planning
but I came in this world by mistake. After an attempt of abortion I still
survived completely by god’s grace.
Papa, I really love you a lot and I would be loving you
this much even after my marriage and I know that you also love me a lot. You
always have taken proper care of me. You always have saved me from the hardship
of this artificial and filthy world. I always wanted to be your son instead of
your daughter so that I can live with you forever and I agree that you never discriminated with me on gender basis.
You taught me several things that helped me to survive in this world.
Today, I am a proud woman only because of you as you
gave me proper education; you taught me moral values and most importantly you
always encouraged me to fight for my rights. I remember how you supported me
when the entire society was against me when I took a decision to call off my
engagement.
We always have shared an awesome bonding of father and
daughter. I always wish to god to give everyone a father like you but I do not
wish that god should give anyone a husband as you are.
You were/are amazing father but not amazing husband. Since
my childhood I have seen those fights between you and mom and after each fight
mom used to cry a lot. I know that you had past affairs too and I believe you
still have. I always ask myself that why didn’t mom leave you even after
knowing that you have extra marital-affairs?? May be an illiterate woman from a
rigid Indian Community do not have that right to access in order
to protect her own self respect.
I don’t want my future husband/partner to be like you. Actually
I do not expect any honesty or loyalty from male society as you have sown that
seed in me. I have seen your cold behaviour towards my mom and that behaviour
of yours turned me so stone-hearted that today I do not believe in the concept
of marriage.
I know you were/are with mom because you had/have to be
with her in order to perform social rituals and rites towards this artificial
society. But your broken marriage has always given me a tremendous pain inside
and consequentially I started getting scared from marriage talks.
I am afraid of commitment. I always feel if you’re this
trait comes within me; or if my future husband/partner would do what you have
done to my mom. I know it would become painful for you as well to see my
sufferings but I guess that would be the only possible way that could make you
to feel my mom’s pain.
Somewhere I try my best to understand your situations
but being a woman I am completely against of sharing my husband/partner with
any other woman.
You always ask me that what sort of person I want in my
life as my future husband/partner I always scream inside me that “definitely
not like you”. Yet, I still love my father in the same proportion as I hate my
mother’s husband but I understand my mother’s husband’s love life and somewhere
it was one of the reasons I never have interfered between you and mom.
I know relations are complicated and confusing but you have made them in this way and I run from commitments because I don’t want to repeat
this history. I don’t want to be that victim which sounds like my mom.
I want to stay alone forever if not alone then probably
with the person without any expectations and commitments because I am afraid of commitments in real life.
Its completely an imaginary letter intended to tell the men society that how you treat your wife is going to be judged by your own daughter, so be nice with your wife.... avoid domestic violence. Some domestic violence can be something similar to what I have stated in this letter... and this violence remains unheard within the four corners of a room.
We care for others point of view so much that sometimes
we ignore our own thinking. Why does it happen? May be because we want to prove
others that we aren’t wrong but have we ever thought why are we proving?
Instead of having long discussions on WhatsApp groups or FB messenger why can’t
we just let it go?? May be just because we want to show others that how good
human beings we are!!
Life is so strange. Sometimes you fall in love and
everything looks so beautiful. We give numerous perpetual future promises for some
non existing events. And unexpectedly after few years you feel out of love and
everything looks so stupid and consequentially people break their love
relations and everything looks so ugly. Some people feel to commit suicide due
to failure of love life that I always have found more worst than love failure.
Why can’t we be happy when we take/give breakups?? Can
love be successful only when both the parties are involved? No, it is not
necessary. We can be happy even after our breakups. Break up is nothing just a
process that slowly removes the layer of blindness from your eyes.
And in this journey of breakups and patch-ups we become
the time pass conversation for some other third person. Why can’t we follow the
policy of confidentiality even after our breakups??
We misinterpret everything in our life. Likeness looks
love, love looks likeness and this is how life turns into a mess. We always
misinterpret love. Love isn’t about giving pain to your partner; love isn’t
about giving inferior feelings to your partner; love isn’t about being rude to
your partner; Love isn’t about hating when you are no more together.
Love was never boastful and it cannot be as it has
believed only in giving. It is sad to see some people use the words like “he/she
used me” and sometimes they hate that person because he/she left them. If your
love dies when that person leaves you then sorry it wasn’t love only. I do not
mean to say that go for one sided love but I mean to say instead of showing hatred,
anger and using rustic words about your partner why can’t you just accept it the
way you had accepted them when they used to love you??.
When both the partners love equally indeed it is the
best feeling in the world that cannot be defined by anyone. Love is true when
you love someone with the flow of river and losses your identity completely by
diluting yourself into an ocean of love.
Does love happen once?? Well, it is always difficult to
answer. I never believed in the concept of number of love as I don’t think that
love happens once, twice or thrice I just believe that love happens and it can
happen at any point of time.
And you should admire your love when you are still together
when everyone opposed you for being together but still you stood for your love
without caring for society at large and number of friends at small. Admiration gives nothing substantial but fills you with emotional strength.
When you are in love you actually devote into each
other emotionally, physically and spiritually instead of using each other.
Respect your partner’s decision even when their decision
is against your love. It’s easy to fall in love but it’s difficult to love them
when they don’t love you anymore. Marriage is not a permanent solution for
making your partner completely yours forever.
Sometimes love can happen at the worst situation.
Nothing is wrong or right when you are in love it just happens without any
reason. If there is any reason to love someone then surely it’s not love. Love
is like water- pure, pious and in the end of your day it gives you contentment.
“Love
cannot be jealous, love cannot be boastful, it cannot be selfish, and it cannot
be rude- A Walk to Remember”.
Car is the highly essential commodity which is in
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turned like a taboo for those who consider it as a matter of prestige.
No doubt travelling by car or riding your own car gives
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Nissan- a very well known car brand has come up in the
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The following are some important features of this
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Fuel
Competence Outline: It is revealed by the sources that the
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engine. The brand new Datsun redi-GO Hatchback
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And yes, when anyone buys a car then in first instance
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Colour-
After
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1) White
2) Ruby Red
3) Silver
4) Lime
5) Bronze gray
The abovementioned 5 awesome and amazing colours are
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Datsun
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1) Type- 800cc,
3-cylinder, DOHC petrol
2) Power- 53.2bhp
@ 5678rpm
3) Torque- 72Nm
@ 4386rpm
4) Transmission- 5-speed manual
5) Height- 1,541 mm
6) Length- 3, 429 mm
7) Width- 1, 560 mm
8) Boot-Space- 222 litres
It has been claimed by the sources that this car has the best mileage.
Other
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Price-
The
Amazing Datsun redi-GO hatchback is available approximately at a very
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actual price of this car is yet to be revealed by the company but the other
sources have estimated the above price range.
After googling all the attractive and amazing features
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