Marriage- How it impacts Love-Relationships...

 

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"Rahul, I do Love you, it’s just that I don't want to get married now. I am just 24 and I want to explore my life, that's it." 

I never wanted to be so rude with him but he was not ready to understand my single point and broke all his relations with me.

I remember when I met him for the first time 6 years ago in my law college; it was indeed a best moment of my life. We both were so happy but this marriage part always used to upset me as I needed some time before to get married. I was not that type of girl who could handle typical Indian traditional families and I knew that I cannot act like best Bahu, Bhabhi etc. 

It’s been 2 years we haven't spoke to each other but I really didn't break up with him it was all circumstances which compelled me to get separated from him. Yes, I do love him, I really cannot forget him. He was my first kiss, my first love and my first sex. 

His soul gave a very essential fragrance and impact to my character which helped me to glow even more as a better person.

I know that the word "Sex" creates so much excitement in everyone's mind but it's just an amazing incident which makes relationship even more beautiful and fills life with flowery fragrance of love. He was my life and I guess still he is and being one of the reason which didn't ever allow me to get involve with anyone in love sense.

He still lives in my memories and still I cherish those moments which I had spent with him.  

I remember that time which helped us to come closer and it was---------

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"It was Saturday and he called me up--------

"Let’s meet up today will go for a movie, what say??"

"Yeah sure"...

12 o" clock noon we met at Inox theatre in Mumbai and after watching Two-states movie we rushed ahead to our respective destinations.

I remember that day when he was hesitating to ask me for something but I couldn't figure it out; after a jiffy he said-

"Will you mind to stay at my flat?? As we can spend some good time together"

I was not so shocked at all because I had lot of male friends with whom I used to hang out in group and without even giving a second thought I nodded in affirmative way as I was already excited to see my beloved's personal stuff.

We reached at his flat and then I saw such a horror part of his flat which one can see when few guys live all alone in PG.

It was the dirtiest place which I had ever seen in my life. We had lots of formal talk, we were dating each other too but we never had any romantic sort of moments during initial period of our relationship as we both were two different persons our choices and likeness were totally opposite to each other.

After seeing his smelly flat; I was really not willing to stay there for a second also but just for the sake of his happiness I barely managed to stay and that decision of mine changed my life. I had sex for the first time and from that day onwards our life also changed and relationship too.

We became so crazy for each other which I never expected that a girl like me can do so. Indeed it was a best part of my life and my relationship grew even stronger after having that amazing moment together with my lover.  

But as usual it turns mandatory after a period of time to decide about marriage and I was not that sort of person who would prefer to get married so early.

And that decision impacted my love- story too.

He proposed me for marriage for which I was not ready atleast for few years and that gave forever impact to my life and today I am 35 still sweet single and madly in love with him".

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But I still love him because for me marriage doesn’t impact relationship and in India for almost 80% population marriage impacts so much that they break their relationships too if their partner seeks some time to get cozy with the concept of marriage. 

For me marriage does not play as essential role as my feelings. Marriage is just an institution which validate the physical intimation of couples. Indeed its important but it should not come at the cost of your partner's happiness.

One question always run in my mind that “When you love someone so truly then how come such a small & tiny issue becomes so relevant that you become least bother for your relationship over man-made regulations which is known as marriage??

 

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It still impacts me.....

This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.

One thing always hurts me and compels me to think about the reasons why god has created this world for us? What hurts more?? Love? Or its rejection or cold behaviour of your loved ones??

Life has always been cruel  to Vrinda and sometimes the most innocent child but in all these life's emotional trauma if something really impacted her mind then I would say its “Emotions” which impacted and created a substantial effect on her soul forever.

We make thousands of promises for future events which do not even exist while making such promises; but when gradually that time comes we realise how stupid we were!! We made several promises but life wanted something else from us.

This below mentioned emotional poem is a silent part of some untold emotions of a matured Vrinda who realised the main cause of her mental trauma but decided to be nice with the cruel life. This is how life goes on and keeps on moving with the flow.

 

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Was it really true?

I was standing near the crowded Mumbai beach,

My painful voice of heart was screaming shouting to call you back but to your egoistic heart it couldn't reach,

I stabbed inside my heart to take out my feelings for you,

My dreams were lying on the dying dew.

Were you really in love with me or were love lying only in me??

Emotional trauma of my heart why only you couldn't see??

Was it a love story of “I" and "you” or were there of us together "we"??

Were you actually working for us or just trying to be busy bee.

Thought of murder of our love story gives me a tremendous pain

I managed to walk miles to meet you in heavy rain.

You called my efforts and love as only a stain

Now I have shifted you from my heart to brain.

Was this so called feelings just a temporary love flue?

Or you actually had intention to stick with me like glue??

We plan so much for our future which does not even exist when we are together.

What is bad about Mumbai??

Actually it’s a great city to live if you want to stay in India. But the worst part of it is that your tears will get melt in heavy rain and your painful voice will remain unheard due to crowded voice of its population.

Love happens, gives immense happiness to everyone but it comes with the cost which is really expensive and for the whole life you will keep on compensating with your tears.

Love doesn’t hurt but if it happens to wrong person then it gives durable dark spots on your heart.  

What remains in your hand  after loving someone truly and relentlessly??

“ Just a thought of love and to be loved by someone special whom you had loved once and forever”

Yes, your memories and love still impacts me!!! 

How to turn Good Morning into Gold Mornings??

Being a girl I always love to look pretty, smart and elegant in my daily routine life but do you think so that it is really possible in a city like Mumbai??

“Mumbai” a place where millions of population travel in local trains and it turns impossible for common men to be fresh and elegant every time.

I love eating ice-creams & Chocolates but I have sensitivity issues and some of my teeth have already been decayed.

 So, what is an alternative option for me?? Should I stop eating chocolates & Ice-Creams?? No ways, because now I have “Colgate 360⁰ Charcoal Gold toothbrush” which cleans my mouth properly and due to its freshness my good morning turns to gold mornings.  

“Bad breathing” is completely an unhygienic way to approach anyone before to start your morning. 
Your morning will not remain good at all as people will hesitate to come closer to you and that really can affect your charm & elegancy.

There is a way through which I turn my good morning to gold mornings with the help of #Colgate360GoldMornings. It cleans each and every part of my mouth perfectly. It works as a magic and makes my teeth shinier & keep it fresh during my entire day.

“Colgate 360⁰ Charcoal Gold toothbrush” has been recommended by Oral Care Professional Brand Recommendation Study which was conducted by IPSOS in the month of March, 2014

The “Colgate 360⁰ Charcoal Gold toothbrush” has four-fold advantages because it cleans all essential mouth surfaces like Teeth, Tongue, Cheeks and Gums. 

My good morning turns to gold mornings when someone compliments me for being fresh for a complete day and that is possible only if I have average looks, nice dressing sense and fresh mouth breath.

To keep my mouth breath fresh and active I use “#Colgate360GoldMornings” mantra and it really helps me.

Try it and believe me you will love my gold mornings formula; which is discovered by Colgate by introducing magical “Colgate 360⁰ Charcoal Gold toothbrush” which cleans your mouth surface entirely and gives you fresh breath and cleanliness from inside; which appears hygienic from outside.

Will You Still Love Me???

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I am not as pretty as fairy could be

I am not as elegant as a nymph would be

Though I am a person with a golden heart

I have fairy wings of my own thoughts

Once upon a time I saw a prince charming standing outside

He was in search of facial beauty, in me which he couldn’t find

I was ignored by him due to unattractive face of mine

I wish he would have asked to me for dinner & wine

Ugliness of my face I could not hide

Dirt of poverty was running with me side by side

Why Beautiful mare for me he will ride??

My dreams & hopes for wedding knots slowly slowly died.

Hopeless age of forty I turned down

Wrinkled face colour turned dark brown

Prince charming is no more charming, when I had glimpse of him without crown

He was ditched by a bitch, for the sake of beautiful tiara.

Oh God!!! He noticed me, wooed me for pious knot

My eyes were wet, I just could not slept

Since elegant eighteen I only have wept

Why should I say “Yes”, when I know I cannot reimburse him for his debt.

Rewinded my memory 22 year back

Beauty and elegancy those days I used to lack

Golden heart &Thoughts of wings I only had

His rude comments & Expressions used to make me sad.

I said “No” on his f ace, asked him, “Will you still love me??”

Rejecting comments he could not embrace

I replied, “See I have lived with your rejection and still have loved you relentlessly”.

My darling Prince charming, “Will you be able to still love me???”

Very Delhi...

The National Capital Territory of Delhi is not the capital of India for no reason. Delhi is also the cultural capital of the country. The people, the culture, the food, the architecture [and even the girls ;)] are all that make Delhi the best damn city in India. What I love about Delhi is that this place is always active. There is something to do every day (unless you have only either a even or odd number car, in which case there is something to do at least every alternate day).  You know the people you see in the news everyday?  The people of Delhi get to se at least one such dignitary/celebrity every day.

Delhi is the home of the most important dignitaries of the country. It is the political hub of this country.  If you want to be a ‘somebody’ then Delhi is the place to be. The person selling chaat outside a minister’s house could become a minister himself someday. The people here are driven and filled with passion. We affect change in society which causes waves of revolution throughout the country. Delhi is truly the place where an ‘Aam Aadmi’ can also be #madeofgreat.

One must check out the Lotus temple at night. If you want to visit a quaint and peaceful place, Humayun's Tomb is beautiful and morbidly divine. Delhi also prides itself of being one of the greenest urban cities in the country. The most popular area in Delhi is of course Connaught Place, which is known for more than being a economic hub. A serene place to be is Akshardham temple. When you visit India Gate also try the rocket kulfi. It is simply amazing! Among more modern man-made structures see the Delhi Metro which is known not just for its utility, but for its design.

 Delhi is the most regal city in the country. They are connected by more than just a metro, but by its political spirit and love for change. The people of Delhi are always ready to work for the better of this country. (You are welcome, by the way.) Delhiites are a mixed bunch of motivated and people. We know how to work hard and also how to party. Life here is much more balanced and meaningful, because that’s what Delhi does to us. This city brings out the best in all of us.

Drive, Design and Connect, these are what make Delhi truly great. Just like Tata Motors, Delhi too is #madeofgreat. Although I’m living Mumbai now to take care of my grand mother, I do really do miss Delhi. Don’t worry, Delhiites, I’ll be back soon! Mwah!

To know more about greatness go to: http://madeofgreat.tatamotors.com/. Please also share why you thin Delhi is #madeofgreat.

Food & Future: How relevant to LPU college campus??

             

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Healthy body and healthy diet is sign of an intelligent student. Nowadays being knowledgeable is just not adequate to compete in the present educational system.

Have you ever thought, what all do you need in order to become a smart student?? Well, I will always point out college infrastructure, campus, college surroundings and yes, university’s concern towards Paper Pattern, Syllabus & Teaching Staff. These all are the ingredients which are required to make a university completely professional.

Gone those days when people used to have only books for their studies, now this is an epoch when they require all sorts of amenities to do proper studies as this era is for tough competitors.   

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If you want to compete with this competition then I would say “Lovely Professional University” is a perfect place as it provides all amenities in a single roof.

As I mentioned earlier that for best level of education you need to have all sort of facilities which I believe every institution should provide and Lovely Professional University has that level of standard.

An year ago when I and my friends completed our law degree from Mumbai University we all planned to do our LLM from LPU but due to some financial difficulties I couldn’t shift to Jalandhar and couldn’t take admission for that academic year but one of my friend who was a pure vegetarian and Jain by religion took admission at LPU.

Firstly he was very happy to see vegetarian food at University campus. He spoke to us and shared his personal experience for being a part of LPU.

It’s good to know that LPU has taken each and everything into their mind regarding all factors which promote education & its environment. As we all know almost 60% population in India is vegetarian and LPU campus has all green marked products in their university campus.

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He informed us that that Dominos, CCD, Coffee Chocolade, Subway etc are also available within the campus. They serve the food strictly with green dot.

LPU is situated in Jalandhar-Delhi, Punjab with the academic staff of 3,500 who are highly qualified and well versed with the modern education system.

Every day I used to speak to him regarding his experience as even I wanted to take admission into LLM for the next academic year.

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The only thing which I was hesitating to go to LPU was that my friend always informed me about vegetarian food and being Non-Vegetarian Brahmin I always love to eat non-veg.

Few months later my friend only informed me about some awesome non-vegetarian food places outside the campus. After knowing it I was really happy.

LPU provides “Meal Plan” in 3 different categories- Standard Meal, Regional Meal (South Indian) and Continental Meal at very reasonable rate. For more details click here.

If you see LPU campus in Google maps you will come to know that there are numerous restaurants outside the Campus like "Maharaja Palace-Phagwara", "Muncheeze The Food Place", "Haveli", "The Taste of LPU", "Neeta Chicken & Fish Corner", "Basant Plaza",  "Idli Bar",  "Bean O Mania", "Bella Pizza", "Bawa Ice Castle", "Red Devils" etc. 

The awesome LPU campus is a perfect place where you can study and stay healthy.

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After hearing my friend’s experience I really loved it and made my decision final to do my LLM from LPU from coming academic year as it is one of the perfect place which I found in India.

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I have seen several hostel students struggling for healthy food & proper accommodation but LPU is not that case at all. J J J  

                          Watch some awesome videos of Lovely Professional University.

Sugar Free Besan Laddoos

“Besan Laddo- Gram Flour Ball” one of the sweetest and most adorable desserts for all Indians. My dad who is sweet lover but due to diabetes can’t have too much sweet but as with growing technology you can find alternative solutions for everything and for sweet lovers “Sugar Free Natura” is really a grand surprise.

When I heard about “Sugar Free Natura” I preferred to surprise my dad through his one of the favourite desserts “Besan Laddoo”.  It is the most simple and less time consuming dessert but in taste it is always fabulous if the all ingredients are properly added.

There are three simple steps and maximum fifteen minutes you need to prepare your favourite sweet dish.

Cooking Time- 15 Minutes.

Ingredients:

Beasn (Gram Flour)    -        2 Bowl

Ghee                           -         1/2 Bowl

Dry Fruits                   -        1/2 Bowl

Cardamom Powder    -         A pinch
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Step 1:

Take a pan and add Ghee in pan.

Add Besan (Gram Flour) when Ghee gets boiled.

Step 2:

Keep constantly stirring to avoid lumps till it gets little bit brown & appetizing in smell.

Step 3:

Off the flame; add “Sugar Free Natura”, Cardamom powder & dry-fruits; Mix all the ingredients properly.

Let it get cool for sometime; once it gets cool make round balls and your Besan Laddoos are ready.

This is how I made sweet and tasty Besan Laddoos with lots of love and health for my adorable dad with the help of “Sugar Free Natura”.

As I have added “Sugar Free Natura” so that all can enjoy the taste of these Laddoos. Diabetic person & who is on dieting can enjoy its taste without any tension of health issues or extra calories.

It’s completely tension free and healthy for everyone.

After giving this surprise to my dad I saw his adorable smile which he generally gets when he eats his favourite dishes.

Thank you “Sugar free Natura” for giving smiles to all diabetic patients. 

                                   Watch some awesome videos from "Sugarfree Natura"