An Open Letter to God..

Dear god,

Thank you for giving me such an awesome life.  I am a 22 year old girl who is fully furnished by you and ready to become a woman very soon.  At the age of 13 (8th standard)  I received my menstrual periods for the first time and believe me I was really scared to see that blood and that day for the first time I gathered my courage and faced first problem of my life.  

Day by day my physical appearances were changing a lot.  I noticed that my breasts are becoming bigger in size like my mom and men society of yours used to look at my breasts without having a single percent shame. 

I got habitual of this lusty behaviour of men who used to rape me by their eyes rather than touching my body. Once upon a time one relative of mine tried to press my breasts and also wanted to take advantage of dark night and my innocent childhood but I gathered my courage and faced this second problem of my life. I had no other choice except to maintain distance from those bastards.

My looks were not that great but still I had received  many love proposals.  None of them I liked and I said no to them so they threatened me to say "Yes" for their love or else they would be telling the society some non existing bad story about me and my character.  I had to tackle the situation and being a female boon of yours I had to bear in order to protect status and reputation of my parents. Still,  I gathered my courage and sorted out this third problem of my life.

I was sorting out my problems from the age of 11 and trust me I didn't tell anyone that I am suffering from such problems as I had fear of losing my parent's trust. I never complained to you but whenever I used to go to parlour for waxing and eye-brows; trust me I always cursed you for making me a girl. 

Personally I do not have any issues with you. You made us beautiful, COA (centre of attraction) and the most brave creature. When I turned to 16 I got to face love drama which is quite natural and normal in this present world. Though love thoughts of a girl and boys are always different and due to those differences which you have made in us; I had to separate from love of my life.

Then a new phase of my life started and I decided to work so that I can be independent but your society never trusted my honesty and work efficiency and blamed me that I am a gone character girl.  At work place as well I was always discriminated by others.

Whenever in my family if it would be a question between a girl or boy I always had to shut my mouth as I had no choice because I am a girl and I can not compete with my brothers. My parents always favoured my brothers because they are going to stay with my parents not me. 

When I turned to 22 my family started looking for some young, handsome and rich men to whom I could give myself. Well... that's not the big deal but I had to give my body and soul to some stranger and it became a mysterious part of  my life; which is still unsolved to me.    

I am scared of getting married. I always wonder why do we girls have to leave our own family after marriage? Why this tradition is only made for women?? I am scared of getting married and the reasons are quite obvious.

I would have to leave my family where I am born and raised. I would have to dedicate my whole life to someone else's family and that person would come to be known as my husband. My life is not ready to accept that drastic changes which I have never imagined when I used to be a kid. 

I would have to wear all ritual things like Mangalsutra, Sindoor etc. but my husband would  not  be even wearing a single thing which can prove that he is married.

I am scared of your traditions and cultures which you have created and made in the fate of women. 

Yes, One good thing is really happened to me in this journey of my life and it was that physically I never raped by anyone. I never faced any drastic physical abuse in my life till now and that is totally by  your grace and blessings. 

Just last request; if you want me to make a girl once again in my next birth, if the philosophy of reincarnation is true then it is my humble request to you that send me to some civilised country or world but don't send me to India ever. 

Women are not safe in this country as We do not have guts to become next Vishakha and Nirbhaya (A very well known and land mark rape cases in India).

Thank you for making me a Woman.......

  Yours Truly,

Female Human

  

ज़िन्दगी की रफ़्तार में, मेरी एक तलाश.......

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उसके अक्स की छाप ऐसी पड़ी मेरी रूह पे न जाने कब मेरी रूह उसकी दिवानगी में खो गयी।  

हुई कुछ इस तरह मुलाक़ात उससे के न जाने कब उसकी शख़्सियत को हम ख़ुदा मान बैठे। 

यूँ तो उससे नायब कई सितारे देखे थे आसमानो में हमने,

पर जब उसकी शख्सियत इस दिल को छु गयी, तब वही एक अनोखा सितारा बनके  मेरे दिल को रोशन करने लगा।

नशा था उसका ऐसा जो शाम ढलते ढलते और कामयाब  होने लगा।

रूबरू हुआ उससे ये दिल ए नादाँ मेरा जब वो मेरे नसीब में धीरे धीरे खुदा की रज़ा में तब्दील होता गया।

सजदा किया उस वक़्त उस खुदा को मैने जब उसने मेरी तमन्ना को उसके वजूद का एक नायाब अक्स दे दिया। 

मेरी मुहब्बत  की स्याही से उसका नाम मेरी रूह पे अंकित कर दिया।

अंकित हुआ उसका नाम मेरे दिल पर।

या था वह अंकित जिसका सपना कभी इन आँखों ने एक कच्ची लड़खड़ाती उम्र में देखा था,

वही सपना सच हुआ और उसका नाम मेरे दिल पर अंकित हुआ। 

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#EkNayiLeague- A new trend on Twitter.

Just a few days ago when I was handling my twitter account I noticed one new trend which was being quite famous as “#EkNayiLeague” and people were also getting an opportunity to meet the great cricketer, a very well known "The father of Indian Cricket Mr. Kapil Dev". I just gave a moment to my thoughts and started thinking about this new League but couldn't get any proper clue then I just saw some videos which were promotional sort of in order to spread this new concept of #EkNayiLeagaue.

In all 4-5 videos Mr. Kapil Dev was talking about games and discussing different sort of sports like tennis in which he mentioned about Sania Mirza (A Tennis Player) as well, so the reason for this new concept could be a merger of players of different sports/games all together. I think Kapil Dev Sahab wants to start a new League or team which is a composition of Tennis players, Cricketers, Actors (As he mentioned about actor Dev Anand Sahab as well).

One more peculiar thing which I had observed about him that he was talking about making good quantum of money by these various sports and he also felt proud on Yuvraj Singh and other Players; who are making good money with the help of sports in present cricket generation which was not so available at his time. So, probably this new league would bring a great financial success for Players and that also could be an indication related to this new league.  

In all videos of #EkNayiLeague he didn't give his utmost attention on playing a game from heart so might be he wants players to play from mind. So another gesture could be related to a game which is to be played from heart as well as mind. In all videos of #EkNayiLeague he is telling people to follow his twitter account in order to know more about this new league; so, must be he wants to increase his number of followers on Twitter.

Well.. it is all a gesture by me and reason could be something else as well. What is this New League all about?? Well, we all just can follow him on twitter and have to wait until he gives the other inkling for the same. Yes, you also can submit your answer and can get a chance to win 1 Lakh rupees. So use your internet and find more about this New League and also participate into this contest and there are great chances of wining 1 Lakh rupees as well.

The another thing which also itching my mind and I feel that it also could be a reason for New League is some Online sort of cricket team or game which is to be played through internet, technical medium or electronic mean and it also could be some different sort of reality show in which all cricket related question would be the subject matter of this New League.

So why are you waiting? Go and enter into the contest. Do not forget to follow Mr. Kapil Dev on Twitter for more updates.

कुछ अधूरा, अनकहा सा.......

तेरे अक्स से मोहब्बत हुई मुझे, ये मेरी खता है 

तुझसे ज़िन्दगी की अधूरी आस टूटी 

ये मेरा  मुक्क़दर है 

तुझसे दिल जुदा  ना हो सका कभी, इसमें तेरी नहीं मेरी खता है.

तेरा सुरूर छाया था उस वक़्त, जब दिल को कभी  ज़रूरत थी,

तेरा नशा था तब, मदिरालय से प्रेम था जब. 

अब  नशा छूटा है, और ये  दिल टुटा है 

टूटे हुए तारे की तरह, मेरा वजूद आज फिर से रोया है.

तुझसे मोहब्बत  की बेपनाह शायद इस घमंडी दिल को रास  ना आया.

सजदा किआ उस  वक़्त, जब तेरा साया पास न रहा 

अब ना तेरा साया है, न मेरे  प्यार की परच्छाई मुझ पर. 

अब तो हर वक़्त धुंदले बादलों में से एक आस की ख़्वाहिश है, 

मत हस मुझ पर क्यूंकि ये मेरी नहीं, आज तेरे  प्यार की नुमाइश है. 

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My #WashBucketChallenge!! Let's share the Load..

“Arial” one of the well known washing powder brand which is so famous that I do not need to explain its quality and popularity among the house wives. When I was young, about 10 year old I used to help  my mom in buying some detergent powders in her emergency. Once upon a time my mom was washing household clothes and she saw that the detergent powder is not sufficient enough to survive her purpose. She immediately ordered me to buy only “Arial” detergent and gave my 5 rupees, which was the cost of small pouch of “Arial”.

From that incident/moment I came to know about this well known product as my mom used to trust this product a lot. I was quite happy when I came to know that there is some sort of #WashBucketChallenge; subsequently, I applied for this challenge and got shortlisted for the same. I received such an amazing product within a week time and it was a time when my challenge supposed to start. After seeing a packet of Arial Matic my mom was the one who was the happiest as it is her favorite brand and she actually wanted to tell more good things about the “Arial”.  

My mom is the one who handles everything related to domestic work of our home and she doesn’t believe in the concept of maid.  It was my brother’s turn as I gave him challenge to help my mom in washing our clothes. Out of curiosity and love/affection towards my mom he agreed to take the challenge. And washed the clothes with the help of Arial Matic new pack, which I had received for this challenge. He liked washing the clothes because it was quite comfortable for him to clean the clothes.

After washing the clothes his experience was so good that he promised my mom that he will help my mom to wash the clothes atleast once in a week and out of love and care towards my mom I also promised to help her in washing the clothes atleast on weekends.

Indeed it was an amazing experience with Arial Matic. We also understood that we should share the load.

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ASUS Zenfone 2- Redefine your Smartphone experience

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“Asus” which is already a name of one of the reputed brand having a great goodwill in the market. “Asus” is a brand which people prefers to buy when they want quality in reasonable budget and people of middle class would first prefer Asus as it gives quality and grace of having a reputed high standard status.  There are plenty of reasons which gives you prompt suggestions in order to find out best grounds to always prefer Asus. Now let’s deal with some awesome features of your all time favorite Asus Zenfone-2.

Awesome Figure- The first awesome feature I would say its "screen size". The awesome Asus Zenfone-2 having slim trim figure of 5.50 (inches), which gives it an extra beautiful look and that slim size generally gives stunning look when you carry such a beautiful Smartphone. This size is generally an ideal size which one can hold and carry without any problems.

Dual Sim- Today, 80% population prefers to have dual simcards. One sim card for professional life and second for personal life. Such an awesome phone you can have with the best  feature of dual personality and do not forget to add that dual sims always help when one network of sim is out of reaching mode but still you can connect with your loved ones with the help of your all time favourite Asus Zenfone 2. Please note that one of the awesome qualities is its weight which is 170 g.

Camera Quality- camera quality is the upper most feature which buyer always keeps in his/her mind before to buy any Smartphone and Asus Zenfone 2 having an exceptional  13 mp (mega pixel) rear camera, 5 mp (mega pixel) secondary camera with Android 5.0  (Lollipop).

Hardware- The best feature of this Smartphone is its hardware which is as follows-

             Processor- 2.3 GHz quad core

             Processor Make-        Intel Atom Z3580

             RAM-       4GB

Internal Storage-    32GB

Expandable storage up to- 62GB

One cannot deny that battery backup of a phone is today’s first essential requirement as majority of Mumbaikars travel in trains or Buses or Some other transportation modes and they generally suffer from battery issues and this exceptional phone is one of the great advantageous feature which have great battery backup facility of 3000 (mAh).

Price, Colour and MISC-This awesome phone is available in lots of beautiful colours like Glacier Gray, Osmium Black, Glamour Red, Sheer Gold, and Ceramic White. This awesome phone’s availability starts from just Rs. 19,990/- (approximately) which is the most affordable price with the huge quality of great features.

I will not hesitate to give this great Smartphone 4 star out of 5 and I would suggest my readers to suggest this awesome phone to their friends and relatives.  

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Magical transformation of Better India to Best India

                      

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India is a country which is fully enriched with social and cultural heritage beauty which is the grace of this country. Apart from its social and cultural heritage if we talk about the education aspect of this country then it is about 74.04% in the year of 2011 and the remaining about 25.96% which is the ratio of illiteracy rate in India also a bane for a developing country like India. When a country is developing then its education and technological aspects are the primary sources which indicate its growth ratio. Who is the enemy of India?? Indeed my answer would be illiteracy. As we have seen in the northern part of India where illiteracy of population is not just education but also social awareness which lacks in the society. The highly educated group migrates to some more developed countries or state and social awareness remains a stigma on the society.

As we always say that when there is deep darkness in the life or society then a hoping ray comes in front of the masses to give them a positive vibes. And yes, Varanasi Boat School is one of those hoping rays for the downtrodden children of Varanasi who do not go to any school; walking on street, collecting garbage and living in unhealthy environment is somewhere their destiny. It is a unique and special sort of schooling facility which has been enhanced by Mr. Ajeet Singh who is a real Messiah of Varanasi.  The unique Boat School teaches subjects like Computer, Maths, Drawing and English which is the dire need of society.

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What is ideal learning?? Hmm… well.., collecting a number of fake and bogus degrees?? Or having a basic understanding to know and survive in the world and understanding or choosing what is wrong or right?? Well, it is all depending on person to person and this great Varanasi Boat School is one of the masterpieces which has been invented in order to spread awareness and to teach downtrodden children of society. Their teaching environment and step taken by Boat School is a salutable incident which has ever happened in Varanasi.

These children deserve a better environment to study and to strengthen literacy rate of India and to compete with the other developing and developed countries of the world. I also dream to see these children to compete other highly educated students of our country and I believe these children have spark to transform a better India into a best India. This magical transformation can change the nation and destiny of these children.

What are we doing??

Don’t we have any responsibilities towards those children??

Don’t they deserve ideal learning environment???

Won’t you aid those children in the journey of doing right??

Yes, you can help these children who are the future of nation; by providing them an aid in terms of school, study related articles and decent learning environment by makeover of an interior, a Library, Educational Toys, Stationery, A Computer, Painting Kit, Books, Scholarship, Stationery, Art & Craft materials, and CDs. Do right choice is yours. What you want to give to those children?? education and positive vibes or a life in filth and darkness???

                                               For more info watch this awesome video